15 Best Sex Toys for Women, Tested and Reviewed for the Hottest Sex of Your Life
Meet our all-time favorite vibrators, dildos, rabbits, and more.
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For the past 60 years, we here at Cosmo have been committed to helping you discover how to prioritize your pleasure and have the best sex ever, whether it’s with one partner, multiple, or even just yourself. And while a lot of this Very Important Work ™ is done by analyzing the latest sexual health studies and interviewing experts on just about any aspect of sex and relationships you can think of, a lot of it is also done by getting up close and personal with all the latest sex tech. Which is exactly what makes us uniquely qualified to recommend to you, our readers, the best sex toys on the market—aka, the ones you’ll find in the list below.
Trust: We test a lot of vibrators and sex toys, but the picks on this list are the best of the best; the ones we know, love, trust, and that deliver serious pleasure every damn time. You’ll find rabbits, bullets, suction vibrators, dildos, wands, and more, from beginner-friendly toys to techy vibes that feel like they’re from the future. But whether you’re new to this world or you’re a total pro with a nightstand filled to the brim, there’s something for you here. Just a few of our faves to get you started:
Our top picks for the best sex toys:
We know sex toys might feel intimidating, especially if you’ve been masturbating Renaissance style (aka just using your fingers) forever. But you don’t have to go full Transformers for your first piece of sex tech—some of the best toys are the most simple and straightforward. “I would start with something that vibrates, that’s not very big, and something you find fun,” says sexologist Rebecca Alvarez Story, founder of Bloomi. “Whether it’s the color, the brand, or a feature that makes it fun, there's an excitement factor.”
Once you get the hang of it, you can start experimenting with other styles and sensations, expanding your collection, and even playing with toys with your partner. “Sex toys lead to more pleasure and oftentimes deeper conversations about what you enjoy (and what you don’t enjoy) when it comes to sexual pleasure,” says Dr. Jess O’Reilly, sex expert at Astroglide. “They’re not your competition—they’re complementary.”
Before adding to cart, think about what kind of sensations you already like. If you love internal penetration, consider a dildo. Clit person? A suction vibe is probs for you. A little bit of both? Get yourself a rabbit. And if you’re not sure what you like, that’s okay too. Start simple, with a bullet or a wand. When you’re ready to explore, here are our all-time faves. Thank us later.
Pros
- Elliptical motion is *so* unique
- Offers intense clitoral stim without leaving you numb
Cons
- Skews pricey if you're on a budget
- May feel a bit too intense for more sensitive folks
One of the most clitoral vibes ever (seriously), the DOT uses its soft, bendable pinpoint tip to create v unique elliptical movements on any of your erogenous zones, reaching every! last! nerve ending! It features eight pleasure patterns with varying intensities, all in an adorable palm-sized package—and for more glowing deets, you can check out associate sex and relationship editor Kayla Kibbe's full review.
- Use: External only
- Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 8 settings
- Run time: Up to 2 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: For an additional $20, you can upgrade to the LELO DOT Cruise, which uses "cruise control" technology to up the intensity when it's pressed closer against your body.
Glowing Customer Review: "This has been my favorite toy so far, as it's both ergonomic and stands true to how it's been advertised. The way that I would describe the movement is a very rapid, almost like a fluttering '8.' Another advantage this toy has is that it doesn't leave you numb like traditional vibrators, since the silicone tip merely taps/flutters on you."
Pros
- Provides internal and external stim simultaneously
- Really does simulate the feel of oral sex
Cons
- Some find the insertable section a bit too girthy
- Can't be fully submerged in water
This dual-stimulating toy went *majorly* viral on TikTok–and according to testers, it 100 percent lives up to the hype. With this one, you can simultaneously experience clit-sucking action and deep internal stim for the blended orgasm of your dreams—plus, the 10 vibe modes and 10 suction settings can be controlled together or independently.
- Use: Internal and external
- Materials: Silicone
- Modes: 10 speeds and 10 patterns
- Run time: Up to 45 minutes
- Waterproof? No, only water-resistant
Pro Tip: Since this toy is super-flexible and the functions are independently controlled, you can use either end on its own if you find dual stim a tad overwhelming.
Glowing Customer Review: "I tried it when it first arrived and I wasn't too sure about it. After a few days, I decided to try again and it was pure HEAVEN. I squirted TWICE IN THE SAME NIGHT. I was only able to do that once before, years ago! Definitely my go to toy, 10/10 recommend!!!"
Pros
- 100 percent waterproof
- Pulsating surface area big enough to accommodate a variety of clit sizes, nipples, etc.
Cons
- On the pricier side for a clit suction vibe
If you're looking for a clitoral suction vibrator that's as versatile as it is simple, look no further than the Sona 2 Cruise. This little guy is tiny but mighty, boasting 12 settings that you can increase and decrease in intensity for a personalized experience that's exactly what you want it to be.
- Use: External
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 12 settings
- Run time: Up to 2 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Don't forget to test out the Cruise Control technology (the Cruise in Sona Cruise). When pressed firmly against the body, the toy automatically increases in intensity. Yes, please.
Glowing Customer Review: "I’ve never experienced orgasms like this in my life. Intense, long, over and over again. Buy it, you won’t ever need anything else ever again."
Pros
- Squeeze-activated remote is so intuitive
- Able to be controlled by app or remote
Cons
- Has a bit of a learning curve
- Pretty $$$
Looking to add rumbly, hands-free vibrations to penetrative sex or a solo session? Then pls check out the Cosmo-approved We-Vibe Chorus, which features 10 vibe modes, touch-sensitive receptors, and a squeeze-activated remote. Shaped like a U, this bb provides dual stimulation and remote-control capability, making it a great choice for partnered sex and discreet public play.
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 10 settings
- Run time: Up to 1.5 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Squeezing the toy’s remote increases the power of the vibration, mirroring the natural instinct to tighten your grip as pleasure intensifies.
Glowing Customer Review: "This thing is a game-changer. The feeling it gives for partnered sex is incredibly intense and amazing. I thought that maybe it might get in the way or make things uncomfortably tight, but neither is the case. In fact, I enjoy the feeling of a little extra pressure from having this in me at the same time as my partner."
Vixen Mustang Suction Cup Dildo
Pros
- Dual-density silicone feels incredibly realistic
- Suction-cup base is strong and harness-compatible
Cons
- May be too girthy for some users
- Def pricier than most dildos (but so high-quality!)
Looking for a lifelike dildo? It doesn't get any more realistic feeling than this platinum-cured silicone stunner from female-owned brand Vixen Creations. The Mustang boasts a solid inner core and an outer layer made with Vixen's patented VixSkin silicone that feels *just* like the real deal—and yep, that non-slip base is harness-compatible.
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: N/a
- Run time: N/a
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Want more ways to play? Slip the Mustang into a harness to explore strap-on sex and pegging (and make sure you use plenty of water-based lube!).
Glowing Customer Review: "If you haven't gotten a VixSkin toy before, it's worth paying a bit extra to try their dual-density silicone. It has a firm inner core, with softer, squishier silicone on the outside. While no toy feels like a real penis, VixSkin is definitely as close as I've ever felt. The Mustang is a modest and comfortable size, and I'd recommend it to anyone—even if it's your first toy."
Pros
- Provides "pleasure data" right on your phone
- Allows you to better understand how you get off
Cons
- Def not cheap!
- May be too ~techy~ for some folks
Known as "the world’s most advanced vibrator" and equipped with 100 customizable vibration intensities (yes, really), the Lioness uses built-in sensors to track your pleasure in real-time through an intuitive mobile app, so you can start to understand what turns your body on—and what you can do to achieve A+ orgasms more often. And yep, the app also supports long-distance remote control.
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: 100 customizable settings
- Run time: Up to 2 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: This toy uses force sensors to measure pelvic floor patterns during orgasm—meaning it can figure out *exactly* how to make you come.
Glowing Customer Review: "I received it in the mail just today and oh my gosh. I tested it out by myself and sadly ruined my sheets, but lord have mercy, I was like a newborn lamb. After the first try, I wanted to try partner play, as I was curious. He played me like a fiddle. I normally don't beg for anything, but this vibrator made me feel like I was having an exorcism with my eyes rolling back."
Pros
- Incredibly quiet and discreet
- Non-intimidating in design
Cons
- Has limited vibration modes
- Not meant to be fully submerged in water
Just starting out on your sex toy journey? This teardrop-shaped massager is a must. Made with 100 percent platinum-grade silicone, this palm-sized stunner is anything but intimidating. It features three speeds, a fluttery tip, and an incredibly quiet motor. And it even comes with a travel lock and a cute canvas travel pouch, so you can take it with you to go.
- Use: External only
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: 3 speeds
- Run time: Up to 2.5 hours
- Waterproof? No, only water-resistant
Pro Tip: To activate travel mode, simply hold the power button down for three seconds until you feel two quick pulses. Then, to deactivate, press and hold again. Easy peasy!
Glowing Customer Review: "I’m definitely a beginner in the sex toy world, and the vibe seemed less intimidating than a lot of other vibrators— just super sleek and simple. Works without fail every time, and I cannot imagine life without it now!"
Pros
- Girth is slim enough for beginners to handle
- Warming feature is such a nice touch
Cons
- Battery life could be improved
- Buttons are on the small size and tricky to press
You'll find a bunch of next-level rabbit vibes at JimmyJane, but the newest (and probs the best) is the Reflexx Rabbit 3. Complete with independently-controlled dual motors (which feature 10 vibe modes each) and over five inches of insertable length, this incredibly flexy toy is a total game changer. Plus, it has a warming mode to aid with pelvic relaxation, so you can sit back and enjoy the ride.
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 10 settings per end
- Run time: Up to 45 minutes
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Press and hold the middle button for three seconds to activate the warming mode, which will warm your toy to just above body temperature for an extra-realistic feel.
Glowing Customer Review: "Oh my goodness, this is the finest toy I've ever got to play with! The modes are so powerful that you will tremble with delight! I truly adore this, use it frequently, and I highly recommend this!! I guarantee you won't be let down."
Pros
- Provides firmer stim than silicone toys
- Can be used for temperature play
Cons
- Not as girthy as some would like
- Some wish it included a storage pouch
If you're looking to experiment with temperature play or experience firmer stimulation, then you may wanna give glass sex toys a try—and this stunner is a good place to get started. The ribbed structure of this curvy dildo provides ridge-by-ridge excitement during vaginal or anal play, and the delicately curved shaft makes it easier to control and handle, no matter which end you're using. Oh, and that purple hue is just *chef's kiss.*
- Use: Internal or external
- Material: Borosilicate glass
- Modes: N/a
- Run time: N/a
- Waterproof? Yes
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Glowing Customer Review: "I was a bit leery of it at first. But once I warmed it under warm water, OH MY! This is now my favorite toy hands down! It can be used warm or cold, [and] the ribbing makes for a very intriguing feeling internally. I LOVE this and will be using it every chance I have!""
Pros
- Provides internal and external stim simultaneously
- Packed with tons of vibe patterns and intensity levels
Cons
- So! Expensive!!
- Takes some time to find the right position
No, it's not cheap. But this toy (which is touted as one of the best toys out there to stimulate oral sex) costs big bucks for a reason. The legendary Duo 2 creates a seal around your clitoris with powerful air pulses while simultaneously targeting your internal hot spots with rumbly vibrations—and in addition to boasting 14 intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns, this luxe vibe even has an "Afterglow" function for a relaxing finish.
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 14 speeds and 10 patterns
- Run time: Up to 2 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: This bb has a Smart Silence function, which means the toy will only turn itself on when it’s in close contact with your body.
Glowing Customer Review: "Having both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm at the same time is out of this world. The arch is beyond perfect—it's so quiet, pliable, both soft and firm, has multiple options for both zones [and] two different clitoral mouth pieces for precision, and targets every dream zone imaginable. Thank me later."
Pros
- Compact size is ideal for travel
- So cheap yet so powerful!
Cons
- Not a great choice for those with sensitive clitorises
- Battery life isn't the best
Not looking to drop a ton of cash on a sex toy? A bullet vibe is one of the cheapest vibes you can get, and this rechargeable option is coated with silky silicone, so you can feel confident using its 10 different settings on your clit, nipples, and other ~sensitive areas.~ Best of all: It’s tiny and so discreet, allowing you to take it just about anywhere!
- Use: External only
- Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
- Modes: 10 settings
- Run time: Up to 40 minutes
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: When you first turn this toy on, the first vibe setting is actually the strongest one, so click the button a few times if you want a gentler speed.
Glowing Customer Review: "All I can say is WOW!!! This tiny little vibe packs a serious amount of power. I love the variety of settings that it has and the different sensations that come from them. This is a serious step up from my last bullet vibrator."
Pros
- Provides both broad and targeted stim
- Flame-shaped head is so innovative
Cons
- Vibe modes are a bit limited
- A bit too firm for some testers
This isn't your run-of-the-mill clit stimulator, y'all. With its flame-shaped head and rounded nose, the Firefighter provides both targeted clitoral stim and a broader labia massage, using four speeds and two pulsation patterns to unlock all your hot spots. It's silky-soft and super-quiet, and the easy-to-hold design is a definite crowd-pleaser.
- Use: External only
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: 4 speeds and 2 patterns
- Run time: Up to 3 hours
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Although it shouldn’t be used for vaginal penetration, this toy is great for teasing the sensitive area at the entrance of the vagina.
Glowing Customer Review: "This is a game changer. It gives THE most intense orgasms, and I love the fact that you can switch up speeds and rhythm. It’s also super quiet, which is handy! The shape is so unique, and I love the fact that it stimulates the whole labia!"
Pros
- Wildly powerful for the price
- Suction tip provides pinpoint stimulation
Cons
- Def too intense for some users
Looking to try the TikTok-famous rose toy? Here she is!! This popular bud pulses air and vibrates simultaneously, and with 10 knee-buckling functions, the Rose is truly one of the most powerful air pulsation toys on the market. Just a warning: If you're someone who's clitorally sensitive, the Rose might not be for you.
- Use: External only
- Materials: Silicone
- Modes: 10 settings
- Run time: 65 minutes
- Waterproof? No, only submersible
Pro Tip: Add some water-based lube to the petals of this toy for even more intense pleasure.
Glowing Customer Review: "This was an absolute pleasure, I enjoy every moment of it. It has a strong suction that’s not overwhelming and it’s super convenient when it comes to tucking it away."
Pros
- Much quieter than most wand vibes
- Operation is v intuitive
Cons
- A bit bulkier than some would like
- Vibes could be rumblier, per some testers
The problem with a lot of wand vibes: They're noisy AF. But that's not a problem with this pretty azure vibe from Lovehoney, which is both discreet and a damn powerhouse. Thanks to its three-button control panel, this wand makes it easy to switch between the 12 vibration modes, and the built-in travel lock helps ensure that your toy stays silent until you're ready to play.
- Use: External only
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: 5 speeds and 7 patterns
- Run time: Up to 1 hour
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Between the five speeds and seven pattern options, this toy will let you experience a whopping 35 (!!) different pleasure combinations.
Glowing Customer Review: "Mon Ami is exactly what I was looking for. [It's] simple and easy to use, and I like that it doesn't have a bunch of random vibration modes—just straight vibration at different levels of strength. And it is very quiet compared to my last vibrator. It's super cute, beautiful color, and works great."
Pros
- Approachable enough for newbies
- Wide mouth can accommodate most bodies
Cons
- Def not the quietest option
- Gentler than some had hoped
An ideal pick for beginners, Aer uses pressure wave technology to mimic the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth for a truly knee-buckling experience. You can also easily target the area with five different speeds and five pulsing patterns, and according to Cosmo's sex and relationships editor Veronica Lopez, it'll give ya the feeling of "receiving actual oral heaven."
- Use: External only
- Material: Silicone
- Modes: 5 speeds and 5 patterns
- Run time: Up to 1.5 hours on highest setting
- Waterproof? Yes
Pro Tip: Use a small amount of water-based lube on the toy's mouth to mimic the wetness you feel from an actual mouth (and to add some extra slickness!).
Glowing Customer Review: "This was my first try at an air pulse stimulator and I couldn't be happier! Aer is easy to use, comfortable to hold, and the ability to slowly increase between intensity levels is ingenious. My only complaint is that I didn't decide to get one sooner!"
What's the best sex toy for women?
Here’s the thing: Everybody is different, so what works wonders for a friend might not work for you. And that’s okay because we’ve got plenty of options. According to sex expert Gigi Engle, a palm-sized vibrator will probably do the trick if you prefer pinpointed clitoral stimulation, whereas folks who prefer penetration might fall in love with a curved wand that’s designed for internal stimulation.
Do you tend to rub along the entire vulva when you masturbate? O’Reilly suggests considering a flat lay-on vibrator or wand to vibe against the whole area." And ofc, if anal stimulation is more your vibe, consider a butt plug. To give you a bit more info, let get into the main types of vibrators for ppl with vulvas, shall we?
- Clitoral vibrators: Any toy that focuses on pleasuring the clitoris (such as clit suckers or bullets) is categorized as a clitoral vibe. According to Dr. O'Reilly, "Clitoral stimulation is the most direct and reliable path to pleasure and orgasm for many folks," which is why these bbs are so popular.
- G-spot toys: Also known as dildos or internal vibrators, these sex toys use vibrations or thrusting motions to stimulate the internal ~hot spot~ commonly referred to as the G-spot (which, btw, def doesn't exist). Ofc, that doesn't mean all those sex toys marketed as G-spot vibrators are fake, because internal stim is still very much a thing.
- Wand vibrators: Some of the most rumbly, powerful vibrators around, wands are used to stimulate the clit or other external zones. As it turns out, back massagers can do waaaay more than just knead sore muscles. (Just ask Magic Wand.)
- Rabbit vibrators: Made popular by Sex and the City, these dual-motor vibes are all about dual stimulation. Complete with an internal vibing or thrusting shaft and signature clitoral-tickling bunny ears, rabbits are ideal for anyone who needs both clitoral and internal stim to orgasm...oh, and they're great toys for squirting, too!
- Anal toys: Anal sex toys include butt plugs, anal beads, anal vibrators, or any other vibrating or non-vibrating toy that can be used anally. Side note: You don't need a prostate to enjoy anal stim. The anterior fornix erogenous zone (otherwise known as the A-spot) is a protrusion of the cervix into the vagina, and it can feel *very* good when stimulated.
Should I use sex toys with my partner?
Sure! Bringing sex toys into bed with your partner could help shake things up. But if you're unsure of how to go about it, consider just sitting down with your partner to have an open and honest conversation. “Start by giving your partner a genuine compliment. Then let them know you've been wondering what it would be like to try something new or introduce something new into the relationship,” Engle says.
One pro tip Alvarez Story recommends is asking your partner to go sex-toy shopping together, so that your partner feels involved in the process. "I can’t tell you how many little nuggets of information you’re going to get from that!" says Alvarez Story. "You’re going to see how they gravitate towards things, if they’re intimidated by certain things, and it’s an opportunity for you to align on trying your first toy together."
How to choose the best sex toy
Again, everybody (and every body) is different, so what makes one person feel good may not work the same for you. A few things to consider before you invest in a new sex toy:
Figure out what type of stimulation you prefer: Before you can find your perfect match on our sex toys list, Dr. O’Reilly suggests spending some quality time with your good ol’ hand to figure out what areas and motions bring you the most pleasure. “Think about what you do with your hands and consider a sex toy an extension of this,” Dr. O’Reilly explains.
Pick something that speaks to you: Whatever you choose, make sure it's authentic to the kind of pleasure you prefer and the comfort you feel around using sex tech, even if it means a simple, affordable bullet vibe. "You don't have to go after the 20-pattern, rabbit-rotating ultra model," says Alvarez Story. "You can go with something simple, or cute, and start there."
Stick with high-quality materials: Aside from finding products that make you feel really good, safety and convenience should be your top priorities when embarking on this shopping adventure. Engle says you should look for toys made from ABS plastic, stainless steel, or medical-grade silicone (which can be cleaned easily). Dr. O’Reilly adds that borosilicate glass toys are also safe and easy to clean.
Look at the specifications: Generally speaking, a heavier counterweight = a deeper vibration. But that doesn't mean every toy with a powerful motor is going to be amazing. Toys also need to be balanced, so the vibration energy goes where it needs to go (like the contact area) and not anywhere else (like the handle, which would make your arm super tired). And sometimes, a lighter toy is preferable if you're looking for something you can take on the go.
Likewise, you'll wanna consider the max noise level and the vibration power of a toy. The most powerful sex toys are usually the noisiest, so if you have roommates, then you'll wanna keep this in mind. Noise level is measured in decibels (dBs) while vibration power is typically measured in revolutions per minute (RPMs), and though not every vibrator will have this information readily accessible, both stats are good to know, whether you prioritize intensity over discretion or vice versa. For the record, sex toys that operate below 50 decibels are considered quiet.
Meet the experts:
- Gigi Engle, ACS, is a sex expert, certified educator, and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life.
- Jess O’Reilly, PhD, is a sexologist and the host of the Sex With Dr. Jess Podcast.
- Rebecca Alvarez Story is a sexologist and founder of the sexual wellness brand Bloomi
Why trust 'Cosmo'?
Of course, we had plenty of fun testing these toys ourselves for form, functionality, convenience, and durability (while paying close attention to the price point to make sure you’re getting your money’s worth!).
But we also consulted sex experts and read huuuuundreds of customer reviews to see how the goodies on this list rank in terms of speed and vibration settings, convenient button placement, battery life, use during sex and solo play, the aftercare/clean-up process, and—most importantly—how much pleasure they provide for different body types and stimulation preferences. Spoiler alert: tens, tens, tens across the board.
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